Forget about a signature dish, hairstyle or lip colour — how about a fail-safe sex move? Get some inspiration from these CLEO and adultshop.com.au readers ...
P is for pleasure
"My position of choice involves climbing on top of my man and then reaching around and applying very slight pressure to his anus. If he's really into it, I go further in and push on his P-spot.
It gets him really hot, but you've got to be 100 per cent comfortable with your man to do this. If you're feeling nervous about it, wearing a condom on your finger will make you feel more at ease." Liv, 20
Surprise. Surprise!
"My signature sex move is catching my man off guard — like when he's brushing his teeth or unloading the dishwasher. The more unlikely the place and time, the crazier the sex becomes! I make sure I surprise him once a week." Julia, 21
Dragon dance
"My winning bedroom move is the ‘dragon' position. I lie on my tummy and slightly spread my legs while my partner stretches on top of me, entering me from behind. He hits my G-spot every time he goes in, which makes for major orgasms. I twist around a little too, so I can kiss him, and play with my clit at the same time. He never lasts long but that's okay because I don't either!" Krissy, 24
Hold on tight
"Whenever we're having sex in the missionary position, I slide my hand down so that my pointer finger is on one side of my man's shaft and my middle finger is on the other side. I squeeze my fingers together while he is moving in and out; it gives him a great sensation, and my thumb rubs my clitoris at the same time. It's a great trick that works with a lot of other positions as well." Tara, 23
Animal instinct
"The signature sex move that I always rely on is the ‘praying mantis'. It works best if you are on a low bed or coffee table — whatever furniture is around! I get my guy to stand at the edge of the bed and pull my legs up so that my feet are resting on his shoulders.
He hoists my bum up with his hands so that my back is in a straight line and my pelvis is tilting forward. Basically, my crotch meets his — it's a very visual display that gets him so turned on he can barely stand!" Jess, 24
Sci-fi sexy
"Role play always makes me feel desirable, so I dress up as a sexy character from an action or sci-fi movie or game. It's a fresh change from the traditional schoolgirl/stripper look, and always gets my man fired up. Once I combine some acting with a whole lot of foreplay, he climaxes within minutes." Mandy, 22
Easy as 1, 2, 3
"I credit all the hot sex I've ever had to my ‘ABC' blow job trick. I used to rush into giving head, but now I find taking it slow makes guys more relaxed and more likely to orgasm. I go through the motions of the alphabet using my tongue; up, down and all around his privates.
I make some letters bigger and wetter than others, and if he makes it all the way to z without climbing on top of me, I gently hum on his balls. Works a treat!" Sam, 25
And now for the sexperts… Three experts reveal their best underrated sex moves.
The editor of adultshop.com
"I bought a We-Vibe 3, the ‘C' — shaped vibrator that can be worn by a woman while she's making love. I also like to squeeze some water based lube onto my toy and, cupping it in the palm of my hand, give my guy a super-intense vibrating hand job by rubbing the We-Vibe up and down his shaft.
With a gentle squeeze, I can increase the tightness and really send him into overdrive. The ending is more than happy for both of us!"
The creator of "Bedroom Boot Camp" (savvyinspiredwomen.com)
"My favourite part of a man's body is a part many women ignore. I call it the ‘mmm' spot — the area spanning from his belly button down to his balls. Men love to be stroked, licked and kissed in this area.
Push your man onto the bed with a wicked smile, bend over and blow gently on these parts. Gently kiss his groin and near his hip bones. It will drive him crazy."
The sex therapist
"When my partner gets home, I greet him in lingerie designed for maximum visual impact (usually something that shows my nipples, crotch and buttocks) I choose a day when I have plenty of time to get in the mood.
I shower and preen myself, get into costume and generate all sorts of fantasies that have me feeling up for it by the time he arrives. In one glance he takes in my outfit, my body language and my face and responds immediately."
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