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Five fetishes you've just gotta try

By Cleo Staff
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Get it on!
Spice up your sex life with these fetishes.
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Alfresco
Let's start with the basics shall we? The outdoor shag. You probably engaged in a bit of a grope in the Great Outdoors when you were a teen, and, whether it’s the thrill of getting caught, the cold wind against your skin or the fact that it takes you back to those giddy teenage experiences, going at it outdoors is always a satisfying experience. Unless there are bees around. In which case you are NOT remove your knickers under any circumstances.

Tease please
Do you know why The Pussycat Dolls are such a success? Hint: it's not because of their lavish amounts of singing talent. It has a lot more to do with the fact that the ex-burlesque group are great at the art of the tease.

Find a song - Britney's I'm A Slave 4 U or Hey Big Spender are both highly recommended – slip into your hottest underwear, and get ready to go. The fact that it's a bit promiscuous and takes a solid four minutes for you to remove your clothes (a 30 second process usually) is great foreplay.

If you're a newbie, try a song with fast and slow beats - the variation can be easier to dance to without getting repetitive.

Sweet, sweet fantasy
You know how they’re always waaaay more wild at costume parties than normal ones? It's coz everyone gets to act a part. Same goes for costume/fantasy sex – you'll lose your inhibitions and you're in an outfit that turns him on anyway, so both of you will be gagging for it.

If you haven't engaged in the wonderful world of costumes, you haven't lived!

The name's Bond
Ah, bondage. You're entirely helpless, or he's entirely at your peril, and there’s something nice about that. As one of my friends who shall remain nameless says "You don’t have to do anything, coz you can't – you just lie there and enjoy him ravishing you". Sounds good doesn't it? Leave some handcuffs lying round and hope he takes the hint!

Wax on, wax off
Before you shudder and/or freak out, think about candles at restaurants. They’re not too hot, and a hell of a lot of fun to play with. Think of new surfaces to play with said wax on. The mixture of sensations is kind of like the advanced version of the gentle bite. Keep it above the panty-line though, unless you’re a fan of the home Brazilian.

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